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Tuesday, August 06, 2002
"The Federal Government yesterday disowned a controversial proposal from one of its own frontbenchers to tighten eligibility for divorce in Australia. Parliamentary secretary for family and community
services Ross Cameron was yesterday standing by his proposal to offer
tax incentives for couples prepared to sign up for a new class of
"indissoluble" marriage contract, in the hope that lowering
the divorce rate would boost fertility in Australia." What the….??!!! I nearly wrote something about this yesterday, but then changed my mind - it was just too ludicrous! Surely no-one in their right mind would even give such an idiotic proposal even the courtesy of a response…only the fact that it rated a second mention in Victoria's most prestigious newspaper got me going… Might I be so bold as to ask how forcing people who no longer wish to cohabit (for whatever reasons) to stay together is going to "boost fertility" in Australia?! Does the moron think that by forcing a couple to live together, their carnal desires will (a) get the better of them one dark and windy night and (b) that the woman will conveniently "forget" to take her birth control pill, or that the condom will tear, and that (c) a baby will result? Are we stupid, or something? Yes sir, and a stork really does deliver the babies, too! What cabbage patch did he crawl out from? I know that if I were forced to stay in an unhappy marriage, I'd be out the door and looking for someone more compatible to have a relationship with, and if I wanted to have a child at all, it would be with my chosen partner, not necessarily my enforced spouse! I'm sure most people probably feel the same way. Apart from the fact that any spouse who insists on or forces his or her "marital rights" on their partner can be charged with rape. Yup, it's a fact. The thing is, people are fallible - they make mistakes. Should people who make mistakes be forced to pay the penalty for the rest of their lives? Even murderers who get a "life" sentence usually don't remain in prison until they die of old age! Why should a marriage be any different? Are married people who fall out of love with their partners worse criminals than murderers? I firmly believed, when my first marriage fell apart, and I still believe today, that children, if there are any, are far better off and more stable with one happy parent than with two parents who are unhappy, or who fight all the time (either verbally or physically!), or who are depressed, or worse, who may force the kids into taking sides. This is not a Good Look, folks! Staying together "for the sake of the children" is no longer a valid option. Get real, Mr. Cameron… maybe you should find a time
machine - you'd make a worthy companion for Saul of Tarsus!
It seems that it takes a lot to get me to write in here, doesn't it... The Middle East Problem I have just been reading the responses in "Talking Point", at the BBC News Online site. The question asked was: "Middle East - What are Israel's Options?" The responses, from all over the world, were mixed - some thought that Sharon's tactics were working; there have been less suicide bombings during the past few weeks. Some thought that his tactics weren't, and never could work because violence only begat violence. One ever-so-wise person even came up with the rather inane statement: "It's finally been proved "an eye for an eye" doesn't work. How about trying "turn the other cheek" now? " Firstly, one cannot inflict Christian tenets on Muslims and Jews. Secondly, even if you could get the moderates of both sides to sit down and talk, the extremists would never allow it. Amongst the many problems besetting the area, which few people seem to be able to see, are these:
So there's the problem of how to divide the land so that each state gets "its fair share" of the spoils. So there's the problem of what to do with all the refugees who wish to return to Palestine and whose sheltering countries no longer want to give shelter to. This, unfortunately, is fact. It is only the extremists who will do this, but it will be enough to ensure that peace never has a chance to exist in that region. If anyone tries to tell you differently, they're either lying, or totally naive and unrealistic. Conclusion? Is there one? Even if a miracle occurred and the Israelis and whoever their Prime Minister was, together with (the majority of) the Palestinians and whoever their leader was, agreed to jointly and democratically govern the whole area, side by side, impartially and without favour to either side, the extremists from both sides would still cause havoc and attempt to indoctrinate the young and impressionable towards conflict and war, in the name of their "just and holy" cause. This is the nature of the beast.
The media have a lot to answer for... Well, here I go - attempt #2 to get this written... My first attempt was rudely munched by Blogger (and the main reason I decided to go this alone, so to speak, without the somewhat dubious advantages of using a Blogger-type utility) You know, I'm one of those people who, when they get angry or upset with someone, walk around the empty house, telling 'em what for, ranting and raving, shaking fists, the full bit.. Then, when the person or persons with whom one is angry arrive home at the end of the day, I say nothing... I can't! I've already said it all, and got it off my chest. Shame, in a way... because the person (or persons) with whom I am angry never get to know just how much they've upset me. It was the same with my entry on illegal immigrants that Blogger munched. I'd gone to a great deal of effort, to try to express myself lucidly and well, to state my case in a logical and objective manner... all for naught, it seemed. And having said/written it all, I simply didn't have the energy or motivation to try to write it all again. Until a girlfriend of mine came over yesterday and got me started on the topic all over again - so, thank you Tabitha! The world may yet get to hear Ms. Winter's take on asylum seekers, refugees, immigrants, and illegal immigrants (AKA "Boat People"), after all! posted by Winter 10:18 AM Thursday, February 07, 2002 Oh, it gets better and better! I searched everywhere to find out how I could increase my time in Blogger without getting logged out... Couldn't find ENYTHING remotely to do with it (by this time I'd been logged on for about... Oh.... twenty minutes?) In desperation I decided to go to their Discussion board, to ask for help. Uhhh... where, and how, do I Post? Even trying to REPLY to a message (so that I could reply by saying "Hey! How do I post a question in here?!") I was informed.... Uhhh... I had to be logged in to be able to Reply?? (sigh*) So I logged in... and I logged in again, and again, but according to Blogger, I wasn't logged in and couldn't Post, or Reply to a message. So that's it. I give up! I'll do it this way (and at least this way I KNOW I won't get logged off, or lose my entries...) So there ya go! I'll do it me own way (as I usually do! {smile}) I've copied the last couple of days off the "old" page, and I'll just go on from here... posted by Winter 12:36 PM Yeah, well it did do it again (told me I wasn't logged into Blogger) I wonder just how long I do have, before I get unceremoniously dumped (without a warning, even! A warning would be nice! (nodes head emphatically)) The jury is still out on whether to continue with Blogger or not. Yes, I did increase my time to 30 minutes... I think their timer is fast... posted by Winter 11:01 AM I'm giving Blogger just one more go... Yesterday I wrote a long and carefully thought out entry on the so-called asylum seekers here in Australia, and the abysmally bad press we're getting over it. Apparently I must have taken too long, because when I went to Post (and then Publish) it, all my work was overwritten with the statement that I had been logged out (sorry about that one, chief!) and would I like to log back on again? Not even a chance to save my writing to the clipboard! No "I'm sorry, but you've been logged out - would you like to save your work and try again?", which would at least have been polite! I was so angry I thought I wouldn't use Blogger again. Humph! This morning I changed my mind and decided to give it another go, however I thought "I'll change my graphics", because I'd been told they were too big for an 800X600 screen. OK, I did this (all in a morning's work, dontcha know), called everything by exactly the same filename, and uploaded them. Nothing changed, except the graphics which had the same name as the old ones! Blogger shouldn't even have noticed! Oh yes it did though, and... erm... everything vanished! I got error messages when I tried to access the Settings option. I got errors when I tried to post something else... Weird stuff! (shakes head in sad resignation) Would you believe that I had to access the template and RE-SAVE the UNCHANGED template, to get things back to normal? Well, I guess that maybe you might, at that! Anyway, we'll see how we go. THIS time I'm going to copy and paste this entry into Notepad before I try to Post and Publish it! However, from the amount of effort that I've had to put into this Blog so far (and my fury and disappointment at having lost the entry I'd gone to so much trouble to write yesterday), I'm beginning to think that I might be better off just "faking" it and doing the whole thing in FrontPage, uploading updates as I write them.... It ain't that different to what Blogger's doing, anyway... posted by Winter 10:55 AM Wednesday, February 06, 2002 Taken from "The Age": Tuesday, February 5th, 2002 "Tas govt bans work smokos Smokers in Tasmania's public service will be required to clock in and out when they leave the office for a smoko, as part of an anti-smoking agreement signed with unions. The ban on smoking in work hours will begin on March 26. Workers will not be docked pay but will be required to make up time for every minute spent outside smoking. The deal, a national first, is part of a state service wage agreement negotiated last year which gave public servants a nine per cent wage rise over two years. The award does not cover teachers, nurses, police or government ministers. Under a draft document released last month departments will have to make their own arrangements as to how the ban will be policed and how workers will make up for the time spent on smoko. Community and Public Sector Union (CPSU) Tasmanian secretary Sue Strugnell said unions were unsure how the bans would be supervised. A government spokeswoman was seeking details relating to the ban. AAP" And I Said: Well now! And they call Victoria "The Police State"! Where is it going to end? Workers having to clock in and out when they go to the toilet? Why not? Who knows - they could be going off for an (illegal) smoke-o!! Ahhhh... What about diabetic workers? Will they have to clock out and in again if they have to go off to give themselves an insulin injection? After all, other employees don't get those few minutes of paid break to either have a smoke, go to the toilet, or give themselves an insulin injection, take their anti-asthma drugs - whatever... That's the argument, I kid you not! 'It's not fair' (this from the anti smoking league) 'other workers don't get the (paid) time off that smokers do' Come to think of it, maybe anyone who gets up from their desk/workbench/usual place of work, for any reason should have to clock out and in again - just in case! posted by Winter 6:29 PM |